Toks Aruoture | Entrepreneur, Speaker & Business Strategist

Dreams Grow on Fertile Ground

In the past, cynicism made its way into my life through repeated bad experiences. These days it occurs through the frequent hearing of negativity since we live in the age of excessive information. Guard your heart and mind, this is where the flavour of your life is prepared. Taking in salacious news or social media […]

The Joy of Creativity

A few weeks ago I rediscovered the importance of living in your space. I see our purpose as a mould that existed before we were created, and then you were made to fit just right. At The Baby Cot Shop, we make bespoke items. This means that a chest of drawers listed on our website, […]

On Perspectives

We had an old friend visit to have a bit of a moan about his other half. Actually it was more than a moan. It was an attack on her character and everything she stood for. She’d shared her side of the story and he had come to give his version. After all doesn’t the […]

Name it Joy

This reveals to us our own power to define our situation. Feelings of sadness do not necessarily mean you are in a sad place. Thoughts of scarcity does not mean you are lacking. We have the privilege and the power to name our state of affairs whatever we choose. When we fall into various trials, we […]

For the woman who gives until there’s nothing left

On an airplane, we are told during the safety announcements to “put your mask on first before helping the person next to you”. This is because you will not be able to help others if you reach a point of low oxygen levels. This theory has been playing about in my mind and I thought […]