Toks Aruoture | Entrepreneur, Speaker & Business Strategist

Visualisation: A useful tool for starting when you feel stuck

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Visualisation is a very powerful tool that many successful people use to reach their goals. They paint a vivid picture of the life they want, see themselves achieving it then they re-enact what they saw. Visualisation is the practice of imagining in detail a desired outcome before going on to achieve it. David used this […]

Dealing with Change: Who Moved my Cheese

Following on from my previous post on The Rock Star Story, the response prompted me to share a transformative book I read some 7 years ago. I was, at the time, still holding on to the past in the hope that somehow the loss we experienced would be reversed. Who Moved my Cheese is an […]

You are a Rock Star: Rewriting your life story

Your mind is a great scriptwriter. It casts someone else as a hero with abilities you will never have, to do great things you can only dream of. Your mind writes you into the story as the pipe dreamer watching life play out on the stage. We see this on social media. I see it […]

How to let go of baggage and travel light

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When we hear about letting go, it is often used in the context of forgiving past hurt or getting rid of emotional baggage. For example, letting go of a bad relationship or letting go of a bad employee. My journey of dropping old mindsets and embracing the new has opened up my world. For example, […]

You can’t change your circumstances

Your circumstance is an unchangeable situation you find yourself in.   Ok, I know we believe that nothing is impossible for us and so on, but let me explain. I reached a game-changing truth; Circumstances are a default, unchangeable state. They do not have the ability to become better or worse. They just are. It’s […]

Wrong Mindset: Lies that depend on external factors

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If you missed the previous post on wrong mindsets, head back to read it here. Your mindset is the foundation from which your thoughts are formed. If you have an incorrect one- which may be anything from a pre-conceived notion to a strong belief- it will certainly affect your actions and stir you in the […]